For the Girls Figuring It Out

There is something special about being in your twenties. It is the most uncertain, exciting, confusing, and defining time all at once. You are learning who you are, what you want, and how to build a life that feels like your own.

Everyone talks about the highlight reel of travel, love, independence, and success, but the in-between is where the real growth happens. The moments where you question yourself, change directions, or start over. That is where strength builds quietly.

You do not need to have it all together

No one really does. Some people just look like they do. It is easy to think you are behind when you see others moving faster, but comparison will always take more than it gives.

Growth is not linear. You can be thriving in one area and lost in another. You can change your path, your degree, your job, or your city and still be exactly where you are meant to be.

What matters most is how you treat yourself in the process. Be kind, be curious, and remember that clarity comes from trying, not overthinking.

Your energy is your power

Protect it. The way you spend your time, who you surround yourself with, and what you give your attention to will shape everything.

Social media can make it easy to measure your worth externally, but confidence does not come from likes or validation. It comes from doing things that make you proud, even when no one is watching.

Go to that class. Start the side project. Wear the outfit that makes you feel good. Movement creates confidence. Confidence builds momentum.

You become magnetic when you are focused on your own path.